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7 Things Creative Children Do Differently

Written by: Deborah Song · October 4, 2016
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7 Things Creative Children Do Differently

To understand what creative children do differently, it’s first important to define what creativity is. Most people believe creativity is something that’s hardwired into your genes, something you are. You’ll often hear it expressed in refrains like, ‘He’s the creative one in the family,’ or ‘I don’t have a creative bone in my body.’ Eat, Pray, Love author Elizabeth Gilbert describes creativity not as something you are, but rather something that flows through you. Not only does this view mirror the perspective that most of human civilization’s had about creativity for generations, but it takes the pressure off to constantly be creative; it allows more freedom to think, ponder, and create.

Having interviewed some of today's most enterprising kids, what I’ve discovered is that creative children have adopted key habits that enable them to go from creative insight to creative output. Here are 7 things creative children do differently.

1. They maintain a playful attitude.

Creative children maintain an open, playful mind. Science has now confirmed that hybrid forms of work and play may actually provide the most optimal context for learning and creativity. Cultivating a childlike sense of play is one of the traits creative adult geniuses employ, too, because playfulness provides lightness and flexibility when generating new ideas. Playfulness also helps kids work steadily towards a goal without becoming stressed or depleted. It keeps them from giving up too soon. In other words, playfulness is the portal to persistence.

2. They prioritize.

Between schoolwork, soccer practice, cub scouts and the overall chaos of being shuttled around from one activity to the next, it may feel impossible to squeeze in a passion project. But creative children are decisive about what’s important. Prioritizing doesn’t mean finishing every single task on the radar. It means making a decision about what’s most important, getting the most important work done first, and letting the rest linger in the background.

3. They monotask.

More and more, people are realizing that multitasking is less productive than paying attention to a single task. That’s because multitasking is really inefficient monotasking – you pick up one thing, then drop it really quickly, and pick up another task. The best results are instead achieved when we focus on one task without distraction. A new study published in the journal Psychological Science reveals that people who were asked to remember less gave more creative and imaginative responses. Overloading your brain diminishes memory and creativity. Monotasking or being mindful was even found to shrink the brain’s amygdala, which leads to happier moods and more engaged attention and learning. Change your thoughts, and maybe you can change your brain too.

4. They daydream.

Far from being idle, daydreaming (or meditating) is actually a very active mental state where the mind consolidates memories, imagines the future, finds meaning and makes connections. We tend to find the solutions that we’ve been searching for not when we’re sitting in front of the computer or doing homework, but when the mind is occupied elsewhere like walking the dog or taking a shower. In daydreaming, creative kids connect dots and get in touch with their own unique perspective, which is the very essence of creativity.

5. They have open networks.

The number one predictor of success, according to research conducted by scientist Ron Burt, is being in an open network instead of a closed one. Being in an open network is about putting yourself in uncomfortable situations with people who are different from you. Here, Steve Jobs explained the necessity of open networks best:

“Creativity is just connecting things. When you ask creative people how they did something, they feel a little guilty because they didn’t really do it, they just saw something. It seemed obvious to them after a while. That’s because they were able to connect experiences they’ve had and synthesize new things. And the reason they were able to do that was that they’ve had more experiences or they have thought more about their experiences than other people. Unfortunately, that’s too rare a commodity. A lot of people in our industry haven’t had very diverse experiences. So they don’t have enough dots to connect, and they end up with very linear solutions without a broad perspective on the problem. The broader one’s understanding of the human experience, the better design we will have.”

6. They turn adversity into advantage.

Creativity requires that you solve a problem. Whether that means creating a unique product to show the world what kids with dyslexia can do, as in the case of Max Ash, or trying to help others find an easier way to study like Lane Karlitz has, embracing a challenge and finding a solution is the very food that feeds creativity.

Psychologists studying post-traumatic growth have found that many people are able to find substantial creative growth in the wake of hardships and trauma. Creativity, more often than not, may happen not in spite of challenges but because of them.

7. Creative people defy peer pressure.

Truly original thinkers see possibilities where others don’t – and have the courage to share their visions with the world. Overcoming peer pressure requires that you value your own opinion more than others. That sounds like an obvious trait we should all aspire to, but this kind of self-concept is much harder to cultivate than it seems.

Creative people have fear just like everyone else. They just do things in spite of their fear because they have kept up the discipline to develop a talent, maintain a support group, help others, and spend enough time alone to validate and form strong convictions that aren't easily shaken.

Creativity as we know it is never isolated; it doesn’t exist in the vacuum of our heads. It must be relevant in a way that others can understand and appreciate. This relevance requires more than splashing paint onto a canvas.

Many of the world’s most creative people will tell you that creativity isn’t contrived, it’s recognized. You never completely own your ideas. You catch inspiration when it strikes you; you digest it, and regurgitate it through your own lens. The output is creative because every individual’s perspective is unique, but true creativity is open to all.